Podcast – Confident – The Challenge

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This was quite a week! We released the very first Just Ten Things podcast which was an act confidence in and of itself.

So what did we learn? Well, I learnt that confidence is a muscle, the more you use it the stronger it gets. That might sound like a trite observation, (especially in light of my poor showing in the challenge) but I genuinely felt that in being aware of the people around me and challenging myself to interact with them my anxiety around interacting with unknown people was diminishing!

Friends, what I would like is your view on the controversy at the heart of this week’s episode. Have a listen and let us know what you think. I think there are two clear camps:

1. When at war, victory is claimed by any means possible.
2. Clouding the truth and suppressing my engagement means that the inherent honour at the core of the challenge is now in question.

Comment, tweet and email your thoughts!

Also, after listening to the podcast I’m sure you will want to join us in becoming fans of Waltham Forest’s premier football club Wadham Lodge FC. You can follow them on twitter @wadhamlodgefc.

One attribute nailed!

– Afua

 

Podcast – Confident

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So here it is friends, the first Just Ten Things podcast. In the first episode we talk to the incomparable Iona Ledwidge about what confidence is, and how we can get our hands on it.

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As a visual companion to one of Iona’s brazen tales, I would like to present for your consideration the ‘spaghetti and marshmallow Louvre’.  I am sure you will agree it is a marvel of food based engineering.

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This podcast is a real learning curve for us, going from absolutely no knowledge of how to make and edit a podcast to a tiny bit of knowledge in just a couple of weeks. However, as I’m sure we will learn on this journey, perfection takes time!

This week we will be embarking on a challenge based on Iona’s wise words to develop our confidence. Any ideas? What have you done to boost your confidence? Tell us here on the blog, on twitter or via email (justtenthingspodcast@gmail.com). You can also use the hashtag justtenthings on all social media!

-Afua

Storying the Self – Building the Just Ten Things Brand.

 

“You have to be somebody before you can share yourself” – (Jaron Lanier, “You Are Not a Gadget.”)

For my MA this week I read some articles on the idea of online identity. It was interesting to see how the theory within these articles related to the antics at Just Ten Things HQ.

This weekend Team Just Ten Things embarked on a journey into ‘impression management’ After reading David Buckingham’s article ‘Introducing Identity’ I was struck by his explanation of the work of Erving Goffman. In Goffman’s book ‘The Presentation of the Self in Everyday Life’ He describes the process of ‘Impression Management’ This is the idea that every social interaction we have is a form of knowing performance. He describes a ‘front-stage’ and a ‘back-stage’ persona. The suggestion he makes is that the ‘back-stage’ persona is a more honest and true reflection of who we are whilst the ‘front-stage’ can be characterised by a level of inauthenticity and manipulation. This was a tension we faced in setting up the blog and preparing to release the podcast. We were aware that we had to create in essence a brand for the ‘Just Ten Things’ idea. The first part of this was taking the pictures that would represent Just Ten Things on social media. We headed out to into the Olympic Village in search of the perfect back drop and proceeded to take pictures of ourselves. We were conscious when taking the pictures of what exactly we wanted them to say. However, I disagree with the idea that my awareness of creating a narrative around my identity some how makes it less truthful.

There can be a conflict at times between our anchored identity which is comprised of elements such as race, gender, nationality and our transient identities, which is formed in part by what we consume and how we choose to present ourselves to the outside world.

Richard Jenkins talks about how what you choose to consume is a marker of your place in the world. He describes social identity as not being ‘a fixed possession, but as a social process, in which the individual and the social are inextricably linked’ I could see this clearly in the process of setting up this blog. There was an acute awareness on my part of who might be reading the blog or listening to the podcast and how we would be perceived. This anxiety is created wholly by the assumption of an audience. These considerations were far greater because of the fact that we were producing online content. The internet has this feeling of permanence. That even though times and trends may change, when you choose to create an online identity and exist on the internet there is the terrifying possibility that this identity you create will become etched into your fixed identity.

In order to mitigate some of that concern this blog, the podcast and even the accompanying twitter account have become an exercise in closely managing our transient identities and engaging in Giddens’ idea of storying the self. That our life is a narrative in which we have to work at to keep going.Impression-Management.gif

If these identities might last forever, we want to maintain a level of control over them. Even if that is just choosing the most flattering angle in a photograph.

Buckingham, David. (2008), “Introducing Identity.” in Youth, Identity, and Digital Media. Edited by David Buckingham. The John D. and Catherine T. MacArthur Foundation Series on Digital Media and Learning. Cambridge, MA: The MIT Press, 2008. 1–24

Merchant, Guy, (2006), ‘Identity, Social Networks and Online Communication’, in E–Learning, Volume 3, Number 2, 2006

-Afua

Why Just 10 Things?

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There are so many different ways to exist in the world. Sometimes you just want someone to refine it down to its simplest form. That’s how I found myself on Christmas Day reading an article that claimed to have the 10 secret attributes of the perfect woman.

There is something about approaching a new year that makes you want to crystallise change down to some simple things. Some fairly abstract ideas seemed like they might just be the doorway to becoming just a little bit different.

Let’s not get it twisted, I want to be super clear that my aim is not to become completely different person. I am a delight, so I want to retain the essence of me, be just a little better, because that is all anyone really wants right?

So this blog is going to be a slightly more personal look at the attributes that Katie and I (Afua) will be discussing in the Just 10 Things Podcast. With a few thoughts on identity and culture thrown in for good measure.

This is the idea. Over the next 10 or so weeks in the podcast and the blog we will be seeking to embody the 10 attributes. We will be doing some research, listening to some stories and talking to some people who we feel have these traits nailed down.

The aim? After 10 weeks we will be the perfect women.

– Afua